in year xxxx
there live a very poor coupletheir income only allow them to have 3 meals(1 piece of wholemeal bread)
a day
they have to share the piece of bread
the husband will cut away the outer layer(skin) which is for his wife
and he will eat the rest of the bread

~time flies~

that last for 20 years
the wife had been thinking
why did i marry him when he is so selfish(giving me the skin and he ate the rest of the bread)?one day, as usual, the husband got a piece of bread
he cut off the skin and hand it over to his wife.
the wife had enough of eating the skinshe throw the unhappiness for that 20 years in that moment
guess what the husband replied

he teared and replied "but the bread's skin is my favourite"

Moral:
the husband gave his wife his favourite food
but without knowing it, the wife thought that the husband gave her the junk food
in fact, the husband is sacrificing his favourite for her wife.
Without communications, you wont be able to understand how each other feels.
dun assume things, it may not be what you think

Another point of view:
Dun think that you are always right, you might be wrong all the while.
Giving up something that you like but in fact, it gives people negative thoughts.
depends on individual perspective.

i got this frm a fren's blog..thot its quite interesting..=)